Iโve been a thousand different womenโฆ
HI! IโM TACHAโฆ.
Educator. Therapist. Wounded Healer. Chronic Illness Patient. Cancer Survivor.
Iโve been between a rock and a hard placeโฆ
โฆactually a few times!!
and Iโve not only survived, Iโve captured that wisdom and now use it to help others so that they suffer less.
The poem from Emory Hall has a line that says, โIโve been a thousand different womenโ and I relate to that so much, and I know Iโll be a thousand more. Iโve come to understand that Iโm always evolving, whether I want to or not. Life with chronic pain/ illness and cancer has taken a LOT from me; but itโs also give many gifts.
I know what itโs like to be bed ridden. Because of illness I lost my 18 year career in corporate America that I loved. I know what itโs like to grieve what life used to be like and the dreams of how I though the future would look like. Iโve endured loads of medical gaslighting and trauma. All these things have led me to become the thing that I needed the most at the start of my journey.
Iโm a licensed psychotherapist, author, and educator specializing in the emotional and psychological impact of chronic illness, medical trauma, and central sensitization. Iโm also the developer of the Adaptive Healing Methodโขโa trauma-informed, interdisciplinary framework that helps both providers and patients navigate the complex terrain of invisible illness, identity shifts, and nervous system dysregulation.
But I donโt just teach this work. Iโve lived it. I still live it!
And Iโve helped so many clients and their families use this system to improve their quality of life.
Lived Experience + Clinical Expertise
Before I became a therapist, I was a patient navigating a healthcare system that routinely failed to understand my pain, dismissed my symptoms, and left me to piece together my own healing path.
โข Iโve lived with Interstitial Cystitis (IC) since 2005โa chronic pain condition that took years to be properly diagnosed and left me enduring invasive, painful procedures without appropriate care or sedation (talk about medical trauma!). By 2010, I could no longer work and lost my entire corporate career.
โข Iโm a cancer survivorโdiagnosed with Triple-Negative breast cancer in my forties, followed by chemotherapy, reconstruction complications, long hospital stays, and permanent physical pain layered on top of ongoing side effects of heart and lung damage.
โข Iโm also a survivor of childhood abuse, which shaped my early relationship to my body, trust, and safety. Thatโs where I learned to be โsmall and invisibleโ ; and have spent a lifetime trying to become more visible.
โข Iโm also widow โ I became the primary caretaker for my husband when he was diagnosed with Stage 4 Lymphoma ( and lost him as being my caretaker). He endured countless treatments and set backs, and ultimately passed away within a year of diagnosis.
โข For over 12 years now I have served as a mental health therapist serving the chronic illness and cancer community. I am so grateful for everything that my clients and their families have taught me about so many different illnesses and types of cancer: certainly more than any book or degree could teach.
This personal lens informs every aspect of my professional work. It allows me to teach with empathy, translate complex neurobiological concepts into real-life application, and speak directly to the emotional truths that so many patients and clinicians quietly carry.
The Adaptive Healing Methodโข
The Adaptive Healing Methodโข is my signature framework, developed over years of lived experience, post-graduate specialization, and client work. It blends:
โข Polyvagal & Somatic Theory
โข Existential & Humanistic Psychology
โข Narrative & Jungian Insight
โข Grief, Identity, and Post-Traumatic Growth Models
โข Psychoeducation around Central Sensitization, Nociplastic Pain, and the Patient Experience
My goal is to provide clinicians with not only tools and language, but also a paradigm shiftโone that treats clients with chronic pain and illness as whole people, not โcomplex cases.โ
Make peace with all the women you once were.
Lay flowers at their feet.
Offer them incense, and honey , and forgiveness.
Honor them and give them your silence.
Listen.
Bless them and let them be.
For they are the bones of the temple you sit in now.
For they are the rivers of wisdom leading you toward the sea.
โ I have been a thousand different women.
โ Emory Hall
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